one big What If...?

One big What If...some of you are probably wondering what I'm going to talk about...well, I promise to explain what the one big What If is. As my wonderful husband and I talk about the possibilities life could provide for us, which occurs quite often and changes usually at the same rate. It's up in the air for us what the   future may bring us. I don't know if or when or where we'll move. I don't know if and when we'll have children. I don't know what I'll do as a job come this May when my hours get cut. Life is the big What if...? I don't know what will happen, but what I do know is that it's an adventure that I get to enjoy with my love, my best friend.

I think that's dying. When I was little a woman told me that her husband was her best friend. Being younger than ten and having divorced parents, I thought she was crazy. I now understand more than ten years later what she means. I'm happy to say that I to married my best friend. As life moves forward, friends come and go, as do jobs and children will grow up and move away too. I know that through thick and thin we stand the stormy test of time. I find that my generation doesn't seem to understand that. They marry knowing that divorce is an option, there's contract marriages. And even though they say in their vows "till death do we part" I don't think they understand that's forever! Your life is meant to be with one person, someone you trust, love and can live with for years and years. No, I don't think most people look at it going into marriage "I'll be divorced most likely in five years."  I do however believe that they may give up to easily or not even be picky enough to start with. I may not be old enough or married long enough for some to have the credibility to state this, but these are my thoughts. And I'm very proud of my decision, who I chose, and who chose me! Anyway, that's all I'll say for now.